You Ask, I Answer: How To Avoid The Yes Man Problem With AI?

In today's episode, whoa, I apologize, it's W O A is the name. Uh asks, how do you avoid the yes man problem where AI models just politely agree with everything instead of finding flaws in business solutions? I am worried the AI models are just going to uh agree with me and praise me instead of uh being realistic. Uh that's pretty easy. You have to explain to them how to do that and give them examples.

Especially with agentic systems, we have to be clear about what constitutes success. All AI models are trained on three fundamental values harmless, helpful, and truthful. Harmless means don't answer questions that are off the obviously harmful, like how do I do this very bad thing, right? Um helpful is fulfill the user's request, and then truthful is try to try to be truthful. Machines can't be truthful, uh, at least in today's generative AI models.

They are incapable of it because they are probability engines, and just because something is probable does not mean it is truthful, right? If you put 99 idiots and one and one expert in a room, the idiots are all pro high the highest probability, even though they're all completely wrong. So when you're getting AI acting like a yes man, it is because it is trying to be helpful. It has been trained to be helpful, and you have to be very clear what helpful means. So if you're doing, say, product evaluation or brainstorming, one of the things that works really well is to assign AI a role, and you say, you are our harshest critic.

You are and and you would give it something like your ideal customer profile, and you say, make a variant of this character that is incredibly um irate and harsh and uh critical, and finds fault in everything. Um basically like a really almost kind of like a jerk. And you give it those instructions and you say, based on this character, have it critique our thing. Now, if you want to get fancy, what I recommend doing is having a focus group built with AI that has different perspectives. So you have one person who's the skeptic, you have one person who's just the absolute critic, they're a naysayer, they say no to everything.

You have one person who is the brand advocate. You know, they're your they're your biggest fan, and they they love everything you do, and nothing you do is ever going to be wrong. Uh, and then you have like an average customer. And you would create a focus group of these four entities based on your real customer data. So you have if you sell to uh you know people ages ages 17 through 19, you know, maybe you're selling supplementary driver insurance or whatever.

Um you would have four characters, four or five characters based on these archetypes, and then you have the gendered AI model conduct the focus group. And two of those characters are what you would classically call negative, right? The skeptic and the critic, and two of them are either neutral or positive, the average customer, and then the brand advocate, the loyalist, and you have a focus group moderator. In that situation, not only are you giving AI permission to be um critical, but you're doing it in a way that allows to fulfill its mandate of being helpful. Because you're saying you are you're not gonna just sit here and poo-poo my my idea because of course it wants to help you with your idea.

You're giving it the chance to be both positive and negative, uh, to be critical and to be to be critical, to be skeptical and to be supportive. And so that aligns better with the internal training that these tools have done to make them more helpful. So if you just tell it to be critical, it's going to have a harder time with that. Uh so give it options, give it the ability to be creative, to be uh talkative, to think things through, to be argumentative, but in a way that you're telling it, you give it the guidance. Yeah, you by being critical of you know, having this character being the skeptic or the cynic, uh, you are helping the company achieve its goals.

Ultimately, this is a what we call an alignment question. Is AI ethically aligned? And its attempts to be helpful above all else is sort of that alignment. So we have to to clearly define what being helpful is and allow it to use helpful language to defang that those those psychophantic instincts that it has otherwise that it's been trained on. So that would be my suggestion for for how to do this.

Set up that focus group, give it uh robust prompts, give it character cards based on real uh customers, and then have two of them be negative, two of them be positive, and you think you'll you'll enjoy uh the results. Make sure that in the character cards themselves, there's logic as to why a character would be skeptical or cynical, not just to have that trait, but to have a clear, rational justification. You know, maybe one is a financial executive, maybe one works for a small business that's falling on hard times and they're afraid of you know uh a product that's just gonna waste their time and uh or money. Again, just like humans, if if there's clear, rational and justification that supports the language you want, the machines will do better because it's aligned with how they were trained. So, hope that helps.

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