No longer lend your strength to that which you wish to be free from

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Lend your voices only to sounds of freedom
No longer lend your strength to that which you wish to be free from
Fill your lives with love and bravery
And you shall lead a life uncommon

– Jewel, A Life Uncommon

Tell me what you struggle against and I will know that it is powerful, because you spend energy, time, resources, money, and strength struggling against it. Sometimes, it’s a worthy opponent. Rape. Murder. Child slavery. Genocide. These are powerful dark forces that need the armies of light to be marshaled against them ceaselessly. These are enemies worthy of any crusader’s judgement and merciless verdict.

Crusader's Ascent

Sometimes, however, you admit your own fears and inadequacies when you only stand for what you fight against, rather than what you fight for. You grant your enemy, whatever it is, legitimacy in your struggle against them. Every time you rail against Barack Obama or Rush Limbaugh, you prove that they’re potent forces to be reckoned with, otherwise you’d not spend time and energy on them. Your battle validates them. Every time you protest a Muslim mosque’s construction or lack of a minority in technology, you reinforce your own position as one so lacking power that you cannot solve your problems any other way than by tearing someone else down.

Tell me instead what you stand for. What you fight for. Show me through your actions that if you emerge victorious from the struggle that you won’t immediately set your energy against tearing me down, because otherwise I’ll believe that you will. Instead of opposing a mosque, build a church or grow an existing one’s community and charity. Instead of opposing the other candidate, demonstrate your commitment to the people whose votes you seek that you are capable of good works with or without an opposing party. Instead of shouting me down, ascend past me so fast that I have no choice but to look up to you.

You have more access to power, to superhero-like powers than ever before in human history. You sit at your desk, basking in wireless networks that let you reach out and touch more of humanity than ever was possible. You can effect change and mobilize people on the other side of the planet with your capabilities. You have the superhero powers. Do you have the superhero’s courage to stand up for something, to do something, to make the world a better place?

… because in the world of superheroes, the person with great power who seeks only to tear others down and destroy?

That’s the evil villain.

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9 responses to “No longer lend your strength to that which you wish to be free from”

  1. Thank you Chris! Thank you.

  2. Chris,That is an awesome and inspiring post. CC thanks for mentioning it. BTW I’ve recently really started enjoying your Marketing Over Coffee Podcast, which I found by way of CC and Media Hacks.

  3. Character shows who you are when you’re under pressure or feel threatened. There’s a lot of time being spent on tearing things/people/groups down and not nearly enough on making the world better.

    There needs to be less thinking about feeling helpless. We have access to the same tools, some of us more time than others to implement, but they are within everyone’s reach. It’s a matter of how we choose to spend the time we do have and where we choose to focus our efforts that shows our true strengths and weaknesses.

  4. Mckra1g Avatar

    It is a law of physics that light and dark cannot occupy the same space at the same time. Therefore, by lending strength to creating light, darkness is diminished through a matter of course.

    Same result; different approach (and quite frankly a more efficient one).

  5. Well, well said madame.

  6. I think Mother Teresa said she would never participate in an anti-war rally. But, invite her to a peace rally and she would be there.

    Love this post. Thanks.

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    Great article! It reminds me of my favorite Mother Theresa quote: “I was once asked why I don’t participate in anti-war demonstrations. I said that I will never do that, but as soon as you have a pro-peace rally, I’ll be there.” Put energy into the things you WANT, instead of what you don’t! Love it!

  8. Chris…Good Stuff!! The next frontier is under your feet. You can never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something,build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete.

    All the best

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