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Why Do I Love Data So Much?

Kate asks, “Why do you have such a fixation on data?

This is a more interesting, philosophical question than it might first appear. Yes, I emphasize data a great deal in my work; my company, Trust Insights, is rooted in data-driven marketing. But where did this all come from?

A significant part comes from my faith, from my spiritual practice. I’m Buddhist, and that faith aligns with my perspective on the world.

The Four Noble Truths of Buddhism

Buddhism has a fundamental core teaching, something called the Four Noble Truths. You can read any number of academic texts and scholarly interpretations, but the lay explanation I give is basically this:

  1. Life sucks.
  2. Life sucks for a reason: wanting things to be different than they are.
  3. There’s an achievable way for life to stop sucking.
  4. The way for life to stop sucking is to stop wanting things to be different than they are.

Any number of Buddhist priests and scholars will correctly argue this is a vast oversimplification of a teaching that’s thousands of years old and can run as deep as the ocean, but it’s how I think of them in practical terms.

We know these truths to be, well, true. Think about any situation where you’ve been unhappy, and at the core of that situation is the desire to want things to be different than they are – a sick loved one, a broken heart, bills piling up. The unhappiness you feel comes from wanting reality to be different than it is.

Now, that doesn’t mean you simply give up. It does mean you accept the situation for what it is so that you can stop being paralyzed by emotional turmoil or expending energy denying the problem and start finding your way out of the situation towards something better.

Buddhism and Data Science

What does this have to do with marketing data science and my love of data? Data – when it’s correct – is our best objective representation of reality, of figuring out the way things are so that we can accept reality. Once we accept reality and stop denying the way things are, we can start down the path of making changes to that reality.

That’s why data and data science are so important to me. Correct data helps us start down the path of accepting what is. We can have opinions about what marketing tactic or strategy is working, but when the attribution analysis rolls out and we see our favored method falling to the bottom of the list or not making the cut at all, we have to acknowledge that it’s not working.

And like ourselves, data is never perfect. There’s always more to gather, more to refine, ways to improve its quality, ways to remove unnecessary elements, misconceptions and misunderstandings to dispel. Data can always be better – and so can we.

Why People Sometimes Struggle With Being Data-Driven

This is also why so many companies and so many individuals struggle with becoming data-driven. It isn’t because you can’t do math. It isn’t because you have zero data. It’s largely rooted in the fact that becoming data-driven means accepting reality as it is currently, and sometimes that reality sucks.

Being data-driven sometimes means saying to your stakeholders, “yeah, we really screwed up this quarter and the numbers are way below our goals“.

Being data-driven sometimes means saying to yourself, “the thing I love, the thing I’m good at, isn’t working“.

Being data-driven sometimes means admitting to your peers, “the thing I’m supposed to be good at, I’m objectively not good at based on the results I’ve generated“.

These are realities that it’s easier and less emotionally painful to gloss over, to ignore, to deny. We’re wired as animals to seek pleasure and avoid pain. When something sucks, when things are going badly, it hurts – and we want to avoid that hurt in the moment, even if it compounds the pain later.

And in some companies, in some cultures, it’s not only easier to deny reality, but sometimes it’s demanded of us. The boss who ignores any report that doesn’t make him look good. The investors who demand only numbers they like.

But denying reality has consequences. In the end, reality always wins.

Should You Love Data?

I say all this to answer Kate’s question. This is why I have such a fixation on data. Data – correctly gathered, understood, and used – is a path towards more truth, even if the truth isn’t positive sometimes.

Once we accept the truth and stop wanting reality to be different than it is, we stop hurting as much. We reduce our frustration. We feel less anger at wanting things to be different than they are – and what emotions we have, we more capably redirect. Instead of denying what’s in front of us, we free ourselves to ask, “Okay, how can I make this better? I accept what is, so what’s possible to change for the better?”

If I accept the truth that I suck at Facebook marketing, that I just can’t get results out of it, then I am free to decide whether I want to improve that set of skills. I no longer have to struggle against the reality that I am unskilled at Facebook marketing, and taking that struggle away frees me.

That said, just as Buddhism isn’t the right spiritual calling for everyone, being data-driven isn’t the right path for everyone either.

If you work in an organization that actively denies reality, being data-driven will only make your work harder.

If you work for a person who prefers comfortable lies over unpleasant truths, being data-driven will be a source of unhappiness to you.

If you work in a place or for someone that encourages people to believe in less truth, in less reality, being data-driven will make you miserable and probably get you fired.

I encourage you, obviously, to consider changing who you work for and what you do for work if you’re in a situation that is so diametrically opposed to reality, but also recognize that sometimes, the choices we have in front of us aren’t good, and there’s merit in patience, in waiting to see if things improve as long as you’re not enduring harm.

If you are enduring harm, I would encourage you to accept that reality (instead of pretending everything is fine) and free yourself to start making a change for the better.

In the end, reality always wins. I encourage you, no matter where you are in your pursuits of becoming data-driven or what your personal faith is, to keep striving for more clarity, more truth, and more acceptance of the way things are so that you clear a path towards better days sooner.


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